
Prejudice is a nasty word – no educated person would tolerate bias based on race, religion, sexual orientation, or dozens of other individual differentiations. It’s still OK to make fun of nerds, though. (Q: Do you know how to tell when a nerd likes you? A: He looks at your feet when he talks to you.) Anderegg digs into that prejudice with this book. He finds that its roots run surprisingly deep in American culture, and that its branches and leaves cast real shadows on America’s future.
Remember Ichabod Crane and the legend of Sleepy Hollow? Ichabod, the town schoolmaster, dresses badly and looks funny. Brom, his nemesis, is popular, handsome, strong, and uneducated. In the end, Ichabod loses the girl, Brom gets her, Brom runs Ichabod out of town, and at least some of the townsfolk decide as a result that book learning would only harm their children. Fast forward almost two hundred years to the “Math is Hard” Barbie doll, stopping at presidential elections with educated losers, from Andrew Jackson to Al Gore. In most other popular cultures, the smart guy is also the athletic, happy, romantic, handsome, and well-liked one. In the US, the intellectual guy in the typical movie is none of those – and “transcends” his role only if he abandons it.
As a clinical child pyschologist, Anderegg explores some of the reasons why children might pick on those who do well academically. Whatever the reasons, children in grade school use “nerd” as an epithet that has real power to hurt, whether any one calling or called that has a strong idea of what it means. By seventh grade or so, the kids’ herding instinct is also a hurting instinct. Despite the demonstrated irratoinality of being “popular,” kids will do anything to avoid being unpopular – and being a nerd is the easiest and perhaps most fixable way to be unpopular. If a kid is determined to avoid academic success, you can bet they’ll succeed in avoiding it. By high school, the non-nerds have already given up literally years of exploration and education in math and physical sciences. Only the rarest among high school students can overcome that and go on to college and a career in technology.
And people wonder why more PE majors graduate college than EE majors do. Well-meaning economic incentives come years too late to unravel the prejudices laid down earlier. If the math nerd is the one who never gets laid (regardless of whether anyone else does), would a $100 reward for acing algebra attract many high schoolers? Do the math.
Anderegg offers a few postive suggestions for parents of potential outcasts. Very often, even doting parents don’t realize the power of kids’ peer pressure, and a few innocuous aids to fitting in will go a long way. He also claims back Asperger’s as a strictly defined medical term – as something present only if it debilitates the individual, not as a casual excuse or insult for someone whose focus isn’t where the speaker’s is. Without the shrillness of a nerd pride activist, Anderegg shows clearly why nerd prejudice has such far-reaching implications.
– wiredweird

